For September
My Blessings Basket
Follow Rules
New Car Smell
Breakfast with friends at the farm
Internationals leaving- Blessed to be a part of their
"Wildwood Summer"
Meditation friends old/new
Time with mom and aunt
Dollar Store Finds
Sunset flag ceromony
Customers
Break time
The ability to pray for someone
Sunday, October 29, 2017
Tuesday, October 10, 2017
Waiting on baby : the plan
I got the text on Sunday around noon. My niece's water broke.
I have been saving sick time at the library for when this precious baby boy arrives. I have a new car to ride up to Philly. My plans are in place.
After a few texts to co-workers to make sure they will be in for our Monday night crew because work frowns upon you not finding coverage on your Saturday (every 3rd week) or your night, my plans are in motion.
Pack a bag✓
Call daughter ✓✓
Do some last minute stuff at home ✓
Monday morning arrives and I have a text that she is around 3 Cm dilated. I have some coffee and hop in the car. I take the longer scenic way up to Philly. I know my daughter won't be ready for to go there until around noon. This will give my niece time to give birth, we can visit mom and baby and I can head back around dinner time. This is a great plan.
Get to Philly to pick up my daughter. Receive a text that she is 7cm dilated. I jokingly tell her that she is proceeding slower than I drive. A standard family joke because I always take the long scenic ways. A bit of deviation to my plan but this is exciting, a baby is coming.
Find hospital, find parking lot, trek through about 3 building because we found the wrong parking lot, get off elevator at wrong floor. This should give baby plenty of time to get born. Ah yes, my plans are unraveling just a bit.
Wait, color, text, tv, gab with other families, clock ticks, father updates us, go grab something to eat...........the lullaby song plays.......oh shoot did we miss it! What about my plan?
Text my mom, will have to stay, don't want to drive back to South Jersey in the dark, possible C-section soon. My poor niece this was not her plan.
Other patient's visitors burst into waiting room, burst into waiting area, the baby they waited for didn't make it. Stunned waiting room faces. Time froze for a few seconds. This was not their plan.
Got word that C-section started, Go down to eat, make texts and calls. Baby arrives. Big boy at 9.5 oz, mom, dad and baby doing well. It's late. The day may not have went according to my plan but baby's plan and God's plan worked out well!
I have been saving sick time at the library for when this precious baby boy arrives. I have a new car to ride up to Philly. My plans are in place.
After a few texts to co-workers to make sure they will be in for our Monday night crew because work frowns upon you not finding coverage on your Saturday (every 3rd week) or your night, my plans are in motion.
Pack a bag✓
Call daughter ✓✓
Do some last minute stuff at home ✓
Monday morning arrives and I have a text that she is around 3 Cm dilated. I have some coffee and hop in the car. I take the longer scenic way up to Philly. I know my daughter won't be ready for to go there until around noon. This will give my niece time to give birth, we can visit mom and baby and I can head back around dinner time. This is a great plan.
Get to Philly to pick up my daughter. Receive a text that she is 7cm dilated. I jokingly tell her that she is proceeding slower than I drive. A standard family joke because I always take the long scenic ways. A bit of deviation to my plan but this is exciting, a baby is coming.
Find hospital, find parking lot, trek through about 3 building because we found the wrong parking lot, get off elevator at wrong floor. This should give baby plenty of time to get born. Ah yes, my plans are unraveling just a bit.
Wait, color, text, tv, gab with other families, clock ticks, father updates us, go grab something to eat...........the lullaby song plays.......oh shoot did we miss it! What about my plan?
Text my mom, will have to stay, don't want to drive back to South Jersey in the dark, possible C-section soon. My poor niece this was not her plan.
Other patient's visitors burst into waiting room, burst into waiting area, the baby they waited for didn't make it. Stunned waiting room faces. Time froze for a few seconds. This was not their plan.
Got word that C-section started, Go down to eat, make texts and calls. Baby arrives. Big boy at 9.5 oz, mom, dad and baby doing well. It's late. The day may not have went according to my plan but baby's plan and God's plan worked out well!
Monday, September 4, 2017
August Blessings
For the month of August
A Sampling of the my entries in my blessings basket
Listening to inspiring poetry
Watching Parents with children with disabilities. Taking note of the loving interactions.
The birthday card about counting blessings
New work opportunities
Dinner Theater fun
Waterpark Lazy River- seeing a mother twirling ballerina style for her little child
Sleepover in sister-in-laws camper
Birthday wishes x's and o's
Being on a carousel with a newphew
Unexpected Weekend of company- Jersey shore life
Early Bd celebration at work
200,000 on a truck
Watching father and son putting shed together
Health insurance- Getting the mammogram and blood work done
A call from a friend. Loved her "report" from the hometown
Summer Garden Veggie gifts from other
Time with family at winery
A Sampling of the my entries in my blessings basket
Listening to inspiring poetry
Watching Parents with children with disabilities. Taking note of the loving interactions.
The birthday card about counting blessings
New work opportunities
Dinner Theater fun
Waterpark Lazy River- seeing a mother twirling ballerina style for her little child
Sleepover in sister-in-laws camper
Birthday wishes x's and o's
Being on a carousel with a newphew
Unexpected Weekend of company- Jersey shore life
Early Bd celebration at work
200,000 on a truck
Watching father and son putting shed together
Health insurance- Getting the mammogram and blood work done
A call from a friend. Loved her "report" from the hometown
Summer Garden Veggie gifts from other
Time with family at winery
Sunday, August 6, 2017
July Blessings
For the month of July
A Sampling of the my entries in my blessings basket
Honoring life
3oth Birthday of a Nephew and the death of his grandfather
The Circle Life and connections
Shiva Prayers
Last min decision to stop at a bbq
Working in a/c on a humid day
Scrabbled egg sandwich on toast dinner (yummy)
Mint Tea
Watching sappy movies
Coffee
Co-worker friends
Cousin time with adult cousins
Historical tours
Holding a four-week old baby
Stopping at a farm stand
Burgers & Facebook snooping with a friend
Reading poetry with a nephew in the audience
Visiting a library
Helping to decorate for a baby shower for a niece
Daughter craft time in the late evening
Seeing adult children interact :)
Pool time at campground
Pinochle games
A Sampling of the my entries in my blessings basket
Honoring life
3oth Birthday of a Nephew and the death of his grandfather
The Circle Life and connections
Shiva Prayers
Last min decision to stop at a bbq
Working in a/c on a humid day
Scrabbled egg sandwich on toast dinner (yummy)
Mint Tea
Watching sappy movies
Coffee
Co-worker friends
Cousin time with adult cousins
Historical tours
Holding a four-week old baby
Stopping at a farm stand
Burgers & Facebook snooping with a friend
Reading poetry with a nephew in the audience
Visiting a library
Helping to decorate for a baby shower for a niece
Daughter craft time in the late evening
Seeing adult children interact :)
Pool time at campground
Pinochle games
Friday, July 7, 2017
June Blessings
June's Blessings
Clip on sunglasses
Midnight smore's with the family
Jumping ocean waves
Meditation cancelled= Dinner with friend
Hearing a grandma read in a sing song voice in the library
After midnight chat with daughter
Photo of fixer guys
Truck fixed
In-service season
Son excited about new business
Funnel cake
Spontaneous after work pizza with Rose, Becky, and Marissa all talking "girl talk" = Happy 2nd day of summer
A card from a friend in mail saying
"Enjoy What the day brings"
Celebrating a retirement
Thursday, June 1, 2017
May Blessings
Quiet moments of insight
Opportunity to work at jobs that I like
Helpful co-workers offer to follow me home when car acts up
Chairs that come in pairs (Mother's day gift-sort of)
Daughter catching brake problems before they fail
Son finds a baby bird
Listening to someone share memories of their deceases spouse and seeing them smile with the memories
Off on a rainy day
Bumping into a Stockton Alum on the boardwalk
Breakfast with my Susquehanna peeps
Dryer warranty
Catching a new DVD at the library
Sending cards
Unexpected schedule change- morning off for errands on a sunshiny day
![Gift from the Sea by [Lindbergh, Anne Morrow]](https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/41SPHS2W-jL.jpg)
Buying my mother the same book she bought for her mother (many years ago) on Mother's Day
My niece is having a baby boy- Loved the excitement of seeing her find out at the barbecue - surrounded by family
Opportunity to work at jobs that I like
Helpful co-workers offer to follow me home when car acts up
Chairs that come in pairs (Mother's day gift-sort of)
Daughter catching brake problems before they fail
Son finds a baby bird
Listening to someone share memories of their deceases spouse and seeing them smile with the memories
Off on a rainy day
Bumping into a Stockton Alum on the boardwalk
Breakfast with my Susquehanna peeps
Dryer warranty
Catching a new DVD at the library
Sending cards
Unexpected schedule change- morning off for errands on a sunshiny day
![Gift from the Sea by [Lindbergh, Anne Morrow]](https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/41SPHS2W-jL.jpg)
Buying my mother the same book she bought for her mother (many years ago) on Mother's Day
My niece is having a baby boy- Loved the excitement of seeing her find out at the barbecue - surrounded by family
Sunday, May 14, 2017
Home Where He Belongs
Home Where He Belongs by Kathleen Moore
Grand pop sits on his leather easy chair bouncing bald headed three-month-old Adam over his knee. The little boy clad in blue brings unspeakable joy into the hearts of the family. As they sit rocking and bouncing, I snap a photo. The photo hangs on the wall long after Grand pop leaves this world.
This baby boy came into this world against all odds. Born at Episcopal Hospital in Philadelphia, he weighed in around four pounds. Arriving in February, long before his due date in April, he fought against odds for survival.
In May, the little darling needed to be hospitalized for a hernia. From what I heard the procedure would be a same day surgery event. It wasn't, it turned into an overnight hospital stay. My worriment about bringing home a little infant who may require medical help on the weekend overwhelmed me. Unable to get answers on the phone, I prayed and persisted. Finally, Dr. S, a kindly pediatrician, who never met either the baby or me, made a call to the hospital on my behalf; he told me that all infants required an overnight stay after procedures. He ensured me that medically, the baby was fine and that his office was open on the weekend morning for emergency appointments.
The next day, I awoke full of anticipation. My world would change. The baby would be released and I could take him home and smother him with all the motherly love that I held inside of me. We drove down around 10am but as hospital releases go, there were delays and we became nervous with anticipation. Taking a drive and walking around a little park located on Allegheny Avenue, we awaited word that this little boy was ready to come join his family. Sometime around the early afternoon, Aunt Tootsie and Nancy, his Guardian angels, came out with the baby wrapped in a blue blanket.
The Sun shone brightly, or at least in my memory, it must have. I experienced an overwhelming feeling of serenity that rushed into my heart while holding my son for the first time He was safe from hunger, safe from being left with a six-year-old to care for him, safe from the cries that gave him a hernia. He laid safe and sound in his mother's arms -a child born of my heart, not of my womb.
My years of crying, sitting infertility doctors' offices, avoiding baby showers, ended with the touch of his skin. Adam was brought home and welcomed as our child, the 2nd grandchild to my parents, oldest male grandchild, first nephew to my brothers and cousin to my niece. On my husband's side, he eclipsed a long gap between grandchildren and came at a time when great-grandchildren were starting to arrive.
As Grand pop hands me back my son, his eyes welled. "Kassy" he said, "Never tell him, he is adopted." I just smile and hug Grandpop. Kathleen Moore
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